Thanks, I guess? ‘m sorry but not really in the mood for compliments.
The thank you was honest though. <3
I’ve had it up to here with this fandom…
Alright, now listen closely to this rant because I’ve not only seen it all happen before but also it now happened to myself (mutiple times). But it has now gotten to a point at which I’m just done with this fucking bullshit.
Let me start from the beginning …
The A7x-Fandom absolutely adores it to gossip. Spread around gossip about the guys, their spouses, their family, their friends. Simply put: Their private lives. Why does it bother me? Because I genuinely care for these men, and they do not deserve to be treated with such a low amount of respect. We’ve always known that they are very hush-hush about their personal lives. They got all the rights to do so! It’s not for fun called ‘private life’. It simply isn’t supposed to get ripped apart in the media/public, unlike their music and stage performance and interview appearances. Don’t you think that’s already enough weight on their shoulders? To have everything questioned those guys say in an interview/on stage/etc.? Every band/famous person in general, has to deal with this kind of shit, I simply do not understand how people can be obsessed enough to dig in deeper than their ‘idol’ shows. If those people would have anything they wanted published and shared with their fans/public, they’d mention it in an open message or interview. Easy. As. That.
But okay, this problem shows up in a lot of fandoms, I know, I know. People tried to fight against it but nobody ever succeeded. How could you, against such a big mass, plus, new fans coming up all the time? Anyway … now, shall we continue? Good.
Now, bad enough their privacy gets invaded like that, as well as their families’. Then here come the rumors. It’s okay to gush about stuff you saw, which you think you saw, which you think you experienced. But do not fucking go around and tell lies and false stories to people. Stories which could actually hurt and get the person you apparently admire into trouble! Let’s take this with a recent subject. Matt’s supposedly aggressive behaviour towards a girl. A girl who doesn’t want her story published. Yet seems incredibly interested to share it with anybody, or any blog for that matter. Her story is WRONG. It’s wrong, disrespectful and horrible. Plus, it’s disgusting to even make such a story up in your mind (FYI, so you don’t ask, I’m friends with somebody who used to own an A7x blog and who got this story sent, that’s how I know what’s it about), and even more pathetic to send it to other people on the internet. People who might even believe in that bullshit, simply because they don’t know any better. Why do you want to talk that guy bad?
Do not believe everything you get sent. Do not believe everything you read on the internet. You would think, people are smart enough to know that. Anybody can go on anonymous and send shit around. Literally anybody. But yet, some people are naive enough to believe whatever they want to, no matter how much base for truth there is, or isn’t.
FYI … this… fuckyeaha7xtruths blog, yeah? That keeps showing up in the tags? Yup. They don’t know shit! Whoever really thinks any of their discussions on there have some proper truth to it, well … no. Sorry to disappoint. Some of it might not be sooooo… untrue. But … as said … don’t just believe in anything you read on the internet. Personally, I know better, but seeing as it’s nobody’s business, I’m not gonna spread anything around. You know why? Because I respect those men.
Speaking of which … let’s come to my main problem.
We’ve now found out that there’s lots of gossip going on about the guys. About their families. About their friends.
And now, here I am, getting gossiped about as well. I already had people call me out as a fangirl multiple times. And recently, as one of the members of Ghost’s girlfriend. Solely because of the reason that I stood sidestage at that certain gig. Because, guess why? Because I fucking worked at that gig. I got to work with one of my favorite bands, yet people find it way more important to gush around about how I’m supposedly a gf of them? Well, excuse me, for being a woman working at concerts and standing sidestage. Only because a female is at the side of the stage, doesn’t automatically make them a band member’s spouse! But that luckily died down rather quickly again. And I can confirm you that, no, I’m not in a relationship with any of them. I simply worked with them. They’re very sweet guys. But none of them is my boyfriend. Subject done.
And now, it starts again. But this time, in the A7x-Fandom. For something so ridiculous, I can’t do much but laugh.
So … I don’t know how it all started but I got a hate message a few days ago. Here it is: [x]
Completely thrown off track how the hell that got to me, and how the hell that anon popped up all of a sudden. I started looking around and some people started to send me things. Things I am absolutely not happy about to see.
By the way, after that message came in, I got a bunch more. Telling me, I’m a groupie. Saying that I’m a whore. Oh, you know, the usual. Right?
No. Fucking hell, no. But you know what? I won’t give you guys the satisfaction to post them all and be angry about it. Instead I’m angry about the whole thing in general. Why would you take time out of your day to send someone such hate messages about things, you have absolutely no idea about? You have no idea what actually happened!
Apparently, so I’ve got told, I even was discussed on some blogs (wife blogs included… are you fucking kidding me?). Because, apparently, Brian was being flirty with me in Manchester.
So what, if I went to six A7x concerts?
So what, if Brian gave me quite a bunch of attention?
So what, if we got along well?
So what, if we flirted a bit at the concerts I went to?
So, fucking, what?
It is none of your business. Just because I got lucky that they liked me. Just because I got their attention. Just because they recognized me after several concerts. Just because I don’t just stand at the barrier and stare at the guys, but actually headbang, dance and joke around with the guys which then gives me their attention and makes them laugh. Just because of that, some people seriously feel the need to send me such bullshit? They’re fricking people! Normal people! Would you also send me hate messages just because you saw me ‘getting flirty’ with some guy?
The only explanation I can find for such utter horseshit, is, that you’re jealous that I got looked at, and you didn’t. Well, I’m sorry. What do you expect me to do, now that you accused me and insulted me? Cry in a corner? How about, go fuck yourselves! Use your time for something better and maybe think about what you could be causing by sending someone messages like that! I could be in a horrible mood/be horribly depressed and you could be the cause of pushing me over the edge to have a breakdown! You could actually get someone to kill themselves because of the insults you sent out! Do some of you even consider that there’s an actual person behind the blog you’re sending hate to? Because it doesn’t seem so to me!
I’m so done with this fucking fandom. Thanks to all this shit, I get stalked now. Yes, thank you very much. Now I have to close my instagram. Secure my facebook once more. And I’ll be MIA from this blog. At least for a while. Temporarily or permanently, I’m not sure yet. The only thing that’s keeping me here is the reason that I have people, friends, on here that I comminucate with and tumblr is the only way of doing so. And because of that, I’m gonna check in here every now so often to exchange other social network contacts or phone numbers, so I don’t have to stay in this shit place anymore.
If anybody has any questions, shoot them. I will happily answer them.
If anybody wants to stay in contact with me. Please do tell. I’ll gladly share my number/facebook with you (most likely … if we talk).
If anybody wants to send me more hate messages and accuses. Do as you wish. But I’ll delete them again right away.
Thank you very much.
Now continue with what you were doing before.
Reblogging mainly for the last half. People never understand that there is a real person behind a blog and no one is as cold-hearted as to just sit there and not being hurt in at least a tiny bit when reading horrible things like you got (for me “groupie” isn’t that much of an insult so I think it was even worse).
You know I love you and that I will cut everyone into pieces who hurts you and … eugh … I just don’t get these ‘fans’. *sighs*
Why is everyone being accused of being a fangirl while I sit here, reblog the shit out of Zacky and fangirl (in the tags) about him and get nothing.
What the hellll. Why are my friends targets of the crazies? What is going on here? Wattt. Watttttt.
It just doesn’t make sense. Like at all.
People need to shut up. I hate this fandom. Like so much. I can’t even be creative with my words now.
NO. STOP. USING. MY. GIF. FOR. YOUR. SHIT.
GO AND MAKE YOUR OWN STUFF.
MY FREAKING GOD. THE LAST GIF IS MINE. MY WORK. MY HARD FUCKING WORK.
:c I sorry, sweetie. That is annoying. That actually ended up happening with one of my Sevenfold hoodies. Its super annoying.
It’s just very frustrating that this happens 90% of all times when I like jackets, coats, sweaters, hoodies … ect. :/
But whatever, can’t change that now!
edit: And also thank you! You’re so kind to me. <3
This is pissing me off so much. His eyes are NOT GREEN.
Fuck whoever changed the color of his eyes here … seriously.
You could always try wearing it with the sleeves pushed up. :c
Yeah, true but … after all that’s not what a long-sleeved hoodie is made for! So it annoys me quite much. Stupid genes and stupid me being too tall. :/
The birthday boy, everyone.
When did that happen? I can’t find that tweet. Whoot?